2016 Wrap up:
Today, Elena celebrated the beginning of her fifth month in America. Her English is improving, and she has solidified her place in our family and our hearts. We look forward to having an enduring relationship with Elena and her family in Italy. In fact, we have enjoyed having Elena in our home so much, we are thinking of hosting again next year. The kids enjoy having a big sister, and I enjoy the teen energy in our home. We will always look forward to visiting Elena in Italy and having her return to the U.S. Elena’s friend Asya has been staying with us for a few days. They went shopping and snowshoeing. Asya just left with her host family, and Mason wants Asya to come back. Mason has always wanted a bigger family.
|Elena and Asya went snowshoeing with Jim Swanson and friends.|
|Elena and Asya had fun shopping, eating, and bowling.|
We’ve had a lot of fun and travel with Elena. For Thanksgiving, we went to Chicago for five days. I haven’t been to Chicago in a few years, and it was so beautiful. At times, I felt like a tourist seeing the city for the first time, and at times, so many good memories came flooding back to me. We enjoyed spending time with my friend LaVonne and her daughter, Kyla. Kyla calls Audrey her sister. The Thanksgiving Day parade was awesome, the shopping was wonderful for Elena, Dylan’s Candy Bar and Garret’s Popcorn were our favorite stops, and we enjoyed the Children’s Museum at Navy Pier. Our home base was the Hyatt Regency Hotel on Wacker. We were on the 32nd floor. We had a beautiful view of the city and Lake Michigan.
The apple of my eye, my blue berry pie turned two on Nov. 12th. Every day is something new with her. She loves Elsa and all things Frozen. She loves dolls. She loved her birthday party. Elena gave her a cute dress with Elsa on it, and she enjoyed her party. She loves all the attention she can get! She’s not shy, and she is very verbal. I never knew how fun the “terrible twos” could be. She watches my mouth closely and works hard to enunciate words. She’s even learning Italian from Elena.
|I moved my 40 year old Kawai piano from Utah that I grew up playing. Now it's Audrey's turn.|
Christmas and all the events leading up to it were very special. I try to make a point of doing holiday things throughout December. This December has been extremely cold. We tried to make it through the WinterDaze parade, but Mason started crying because he was so cold. Christmas Eve was very special for us. Mason and Audrey were very excited about Santa Claus. Audrey wouldn’t sit on Santa’s lap this year, but she enjoyed seeing Santa figures and reading books about Santa. Elena helped me arrange the gifts and fill the stockings. The kids loved all their presents. Of course, we missed being with our family in Utah. Our friends here are busy with their own families on Christmas, so we spend the day alone. As the kids get older, it will be fun playing games and watching movies. Going back to Utah will be different now. My mom and dad sold their house in Riverton. They are now living in Legacy House assisted living in South Jordan. Not sure where we will stay when we visit our family in Utah.
|Kids playing with Ellen Carlson|
|Santa came early brining us our favorite ornaments.|
|We met Mr. and Mrs. Santa at the library. Audrey wanted nothing to do with him!|
|Our Christmas Eve party included matching pajamas.|
And I’m so much older now than I was a few weeks ago. My kids gave me an early birthday present by waking up at 5:00 am, two hours earlier than usual. First came Audrey, standing by my bed in the dark whispering, Mama. I pulled her into bed with me and she rolled around poking me in the eyes and jumping up and down like Tigger. Then Mason came. He played with the dog, turned on the stereo, and at one point, I heard Siri say, “Are you sure you want to call Cheryl Becker?” That jolted me out of bed because I did not want to call anyone at 6:00 a.m. Laying comfortably in the dark room surrounded by love, chaos, and young energy is all I ever wanted. I’m so thankful to have these companions with me on my journey. The lovely Elena is with us, she is on loan from Italy. She is a wonderful teenager, and she adds so much to our family. She is kind and thoughtful, and she fills our house with laughter and spirit. Her family did such a good job raising her to be a beautiful and confident woman. On this day at 1:57 pm, in Salt Lake City, Utah, I pushed my way into this world on a new moon. I was nearly two weeks over due, and I weighed 9lbs 1oz. I was the first child born to Marvell and Naomi. My mom wanted a boy first, and she had no girl names picked out. My dad decreed that my name would be Glenda (because he still had a crush on a homecoming queen from Utah State University named Glenda). My Grandpa and Grandma Jones rushed to LDS hospital when they heard the news. My Grandma looked at all the newborn babies and said: that is her, she looks like my babies. My Grandma was happy to finally have a girl. I reaped the benefit of her love and admiration for the rest of the time she was on earth. My parents and grandparents made all my birthdays special. I remember my mom making cupcakes for my kindergarten class, and my Grandpa Jones took me to Alberton’s Grocery store to buy decorations. He loved to spoil me with gifts and affection. I love my grandparents for leaving me with such rich memories. I love my children for allowing us to make new memories. Life is good.
|Christmas Eve 2016|
|Christmas Eve dinner at the Swanson's.|
|Winter Wonderland at Irvine Park|
As a nice birthday celebration, my friend Mark, Elena, and I went to see Fun Home at the Orpheum. Mark said the play was more about that story than the music, and I agree. I think it’s a women’s play, but I loved it. This was Elena’s first Broadway play, and she loved it. My favorite musical is Wicked. It will be in Minneapolis in April. I’ll definitely take Elena to see it!
I welcome 2017. I hope my application for full professor is voted on affirmatively. I look forward to my children getting older and enjoying new things. I pray that Mason can be helped with an Augmentative Alternative Communication Device. He has been diagnosed with Auditory Neuropathy. His Cochlear in his ear can hear sounds, but the nerves in his brainstem that translate sound into language are damaged. There is no cure for this, and he has become more withdrawn as he’s gotten older because he knows that people don’t understand him. If we can find the right device, this could augment his voice.
I love you Mason, Audrey and Elena.
|And Olive and Ruby|